It is better to go to the house of mourning, than to go to the house of feasting: for that is the end of all men; and the living will lay it to his heart. Ecclesiastes 7:2 (KJV)
The preference of mourning over feasting might imply a suggest an anti-joy thesis. But that is not the case. Qoheleth’s suggestion to take joy as God’s gift still stands. The distinction rather is of pursuit; we have two distinctive senses of joy here. One, to be joyous, eating and drinking and being content within the scope of God’s providence. And two, pursuing such joy; which is typically a copy of a genuine gift from God. This latter sense of joy is what Qoheleth seems to be dismissing in this verse. Provan writes, “It is, rather, the pursuit of them as part of a frivolous and trivializing way of life that is under consideration. There is a way of living that is centered on feasting, on the pursuit of joy, on empty laughter and singing. This is life lived in denial of the true nature of things, hoping to push reality to the margins by flooding the senses with sensation and drowning out quiet contemplation with noise.” (160)
Reference:
Provan, I. (2001). Ecclesiastes/Song of Songs: The New Application Commentary, Zondervan